Yes! I was calling a phone sex line, but it was cheap and besides, I don’t even know who the girl is!  It was just a little fun!

We have all had talks where the subject involving cheating is being discussed and fairly recently I had this type of discussion with a close friend who was in fact informing me that she had caught her spouse making calls to some adult sex numbers, and how she had become so irritated because he had been making use of her personal credit card to pay for the calls! “I am thankful that they were inexpensive phone sex calls” my friend ultimately stated regarding all those phonesex chats he had been taking pleasure in without telling her, as though he should really be applauded for having had the good sense of locating very low priced phone sex as opposed to more costly adult phone lines! I had to finally ask her if that was the primary thing she was annoyed about, considering that, if my own partner was sleaze-bag having live private intimate conversations with other women, I suspect I may have gotten furious with regards to the whole thing!

After all, the internet is full with offers of 1-on-1 phone sex, invitations for intimate 1 on 1 live web cam shows where intimacy is the keyword.

If you have been single, and you have used these services, then this is one thing. However what if you were in a relationship and you found out that your partner did more than think about it! He actually used it for himself. What would you do? Would you excuse him like my friend just did (she found out that her beloved spouse had been getting in touch with a sex phone line for some special “pleasure”, and not just that he used her master card “yet” showed “signs of wisdom” in electing to use her very own money on Low cost Phone Sex packages!), or would you be less inclined to forgive him? I know how I would have reacted but here is what my friend told me when I asked her whether she had been angered by the whole thing!

All things considered, you and I go out on ladies nights ever week, and you know what we talk about sometimes and how sexually charged our gossips can get, so what’s the difference?”

Her reply made me stop and think about it for a while. It had clearly surprised me, and I had to acknowledge that her thinking was basically correct. All things considered, we all believe that the women who pick those calls are nothing like the photographs they publish on their web pages thus it could possibly be rationalized that it is not necessarily the girl her man phoned that he was experiencing phonesex with, but alternatively a dream, an actress who was playing a specific role play.

“I have seen my own husband enjoying adult material on several occasions” I said to her, “therefore I can appreciate exactly where you’re coming from! I am not sure I would have the capacity to be so open minded with my husband. though..”

And even as I was about to make my very own argument further, the lady interrupted me.

“I am telling you. I was furious because of the credit card issue so I let him have it for a while. But when that was done, I realized that was feeling left out, I mean if this man whom I had always enjoyed intimacy with was himself exploring fantasies by phone, shouldn’t I at least see what the bid deal was all about?!”

I was shocked! After al, this was the woman who was my precious adorable childhood friend I was talking to. The lady who had her very first kiss a whole twelve months after I enjoyed mine… The woman who waited to have sex until she was ready for it, which turned out to be after she graduated from college. And here she was informing that she and her husband were considering virtual and intimate multi partners relationships. It was crazy… Yet interesting.

“Did you? I asked her. Did you do it? Did you and your husband have adult phone with another person? Your own virtual version of a 3-some!

“Yes…” She said. “And before you ask, yes, it was a lot of fun!”